Going by your screen name, I'd guess the latter of the two, who've driven up housing prices in your namesake county. :wry:
Of course, my college room mate's parents fall into that category - they moved down from NJ and bought one of the houses across from the post office back in 99 or so. :cool:
As for "Sleepless in Baghdad", traditional Arab marriages and a divorced man with a kid just don't mix. Good luck with that...