There was (what I at least thought was) a good interview on an episode of Fresh Air late last winter with an Army interrogator. There was a great discussion some of the issues surrounding night raids (beginning at about 19:55 in the interview) during which he made the great point that resentment at having the door of your home kicked in and your family thrown on the floor doesn’t spring from any Arab cultural nuance (at about 22:40 in the interview).
Precisely, and I would have to add:

-Don't take what is not yours
-Don't break stuff that doesn't belong to you
-Treat others as you wish to be treated. If they are in your sights, there's probably a reason for that, and you had better pay attention to the DECIDE step