Quote Originally Posted by Entropy View Post
Bob's World,

Your analogy assumes that the husband wants to save the marriage or preserve through changing himself and compromise with the wife. It may be the case that the husband isn't interested in the marriage or is only interested for his own benefit. For Afghanistan I think the Afghan government is not only incompetent at governing but also isn't much interested in governing.
You just need to do a better job of picking your friends. Family you are stuck with, but your friends are a choice.